Missing Mother

Releasing the Pain of Childhood Abandonment, Neglect, and Rejection

And Then There Is “Emotional Entitlement”

There is something that has been bothering me for a while, I want to call it “emotional entitlement”. While, sadly,  many people are still struggling with feelings of worthlessness, low self-esteem, and “What’s wrong with me?”, the other side of this coin seems to gain momentum.  There are  people who believe that God, the Universe, the World or their fellow-man owes them something. Actually let’s make that: owes them everything.

What used to be a gift, a miracle, or something surprising and joyful that arrives because of the genuine goodness of a person’s heart (like true love, a baby, the unexpected healing of a severe illness,  or financial freedom), has suddenly become a right.

“I deserve love!”, a woman informed me with steel in her voice. “I am a good person, but God just doesn’t deliver!”, said another one angrily. And being a millionaire has become a matter of entitlement anyway.  That much demanding and sometimes downright arrogance makes me feel uneasy.

What if you only think you are ready to have a baby right now, but you are not? What if it just is not your destiny to become rich because there is a different spiritual lesson about money for you to learn? What if your heart is not open enough -yet- to attract true love? What if you only know what you want but not what you need? What about patience, humility, and trusting that all is well?

Sounds soo oldfashioned, I know.

Leave a Reply

XHTML: You can use these tags: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <s> <strike> <strong>