Category Archives: Emotions, Emotions

How to De-stress Quickly with EFT

There are days when your back hurts, the cat throws up in your bed, the car battery dies, your boss is way too bossy, and your emotionally missing mother tells you coldly to get over your childhood sexual abuse. Or … Continue reading

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Rendezvous with Cupid

I had a long heart-to-heart talk with Cupid about LOVE.  We agreed that it actually has nothing to do with chocolates in heart-shaped boxes. (although I am a chocoholic). And it does not make you happy automatically. In fact, it … Continue reading

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And Then There Is “Emotional Entitlement”

There is something that has been bothering me for a while, I want to call it “emotional entitlement”. While, sadly,  many people are still struggling with feelings of worthlessness, low self-esteem, and “What’s wrong with me?”, the other side of … Continue reading

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EFT For Feeling Not Good Enough

Men and women who had an absent father or a missing mother (physically or emotionally) in their childhood, often feel not good enough. EFT protocol for tapping on “I am not good enough”. Continue working on your personal memories, emotions, … Continue reading

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Since When Is “Spiritual” Just Being Good?

How bad are you really? What lurks in the dark corners of your mind? You will be surprised and rewarded when you actually go there…  Isn’t if funny when you have the same theme come up with several clients in … Continue reading

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Releasing a Craving for Sweets

Food cravings often come from happy memories that are stuck in time. If you seperate the positive emotion from the food, the craving disappears.   34-year old Vivian (not her real name) wanted to get rid of her intense craving … Continue reading

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Traumatized by Bliss!

Have you ever been hurt by a positive event? I know that sounds strange. Let me explain…   A positive, blissfull event that happened in the past can be as detrimental as a traumatic event  – if you are stuck in … Continue reading

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Turning Off the Panic Switch

Childhood abuse can lead to severe symptoms later in life. One of my clients experienced multiple chemical sensitivity and panic attacks. Persistance and EFT helped her in surprising ways.     Megan had a very hard childhood with severe abuse and … Continue reading

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Working on a Missing Mother with EFT

When I had my very first EFT session as a client, we went straight back to my birth. I released a deep, very painful feeling of abandonment, since my schizophrenic mother was unable to bond with me from the beginning. … Continue reading

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Overcoming an Obstacle

Using creative imagination is a powerful tool for stress relief. Regain inner balance and emotional wellness by going to your “inner spa” and removing obstacles and barriers to your goals. Make yourself comfortable. Close your eyes and go into deep relaxation.When you … Continue reading

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Quiz: The Right Inner Sanctuary For You

Building an inner sanctuary, a safe space where we can retreat in difficult times, is very helpful. It restores emotional balance and peace of mind. Find out what kind of imaginary environment is right for you. We all need an … Continue reading

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Dissolving the Guilt of an Alzheimer’s Caregiver

Being the primary caregiver of a family member who has Alzheimer’s or some other form of dementia is traumatic and demanding. There are many aspects to handle, for example: the tremendous emotional toll (loss of the established relationship with a … Continue reading

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What Your Heart Wants

  A broken heart happens -sooner or later- to everybody, yet strangely enough, we tend to believe that other people have heaps of money, great careers, excellent health, and are blessed with devoted spouses and perfect children. We all experience … Continue reading

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Imagine Feeling Better Right Now

  Meadows are old, undisturbed areas that harbor a great diversity of native plants and animals. It is the perfect place to relax. Just imagine one as your personal place of emotional wellness. A sea of golden-green grass, punctuated by … Continue reading

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Absent Father Hurts Daughter’s Work Life

  Was your father absent in your childhood? If you are a woman, this may be the reason for several dilemmas in your professional life. Fathers can be physically or emotionally absent in their children’s lives for many reasons, and … Continue reading

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Creative Imagination Helps Abused Woman

  A woman hates herself for wanting to go back to her abusive ex-husband. While traditional EFT is helpful, it is creative imagination combined with EFT that achieves the breakthrough. Robin (not her real name) had been with her physically … Continue reading

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High Self-Esteem Is Wanted by Everybody

  Everbody wants to have high self-esteem. It just makes life so much easier, doesn't it. So why is that goal often so elusive? Just about all of us would like to see some degree of improvement in the way we … Continue reading

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Anger! Six Ways to deal With It Effectively

  Most of us get angry once in a while – and then we feel guilty, especially if we are female. Here are some ways to handle it. I once asked a very quiet, timid "Missing Mother" client: "Do you … Continue reading

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Public Exposure – Oh, the Fear and Shame

  Supposedly more people are afraid of public speaking than of death. I don't believe this. Actually given the choice, most people would head for the podium, I am quite sure of that. However, it definitely shows how frightened most … Continue reading

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Healing the Inner Wounded Child with EFT

The world is crowded with lonesome, fearful, and hurt inner children. At least that is  the impression I get when I work with women -and sometimes men- who had emotionally missing mothers and/or fathers. All of my clients suffered from early childhood … Continue reading

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Do You Feel Invisible? Tap On It Now

Do you often feel invisible or not heard in social situations? EFT helps to ease the pain and releases old emotional baggage. Here is a script to get going.  You are probably familiar with situations like these: – You post … Continue reading

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