Missing Mother

Releasing the Pain of Childhood Abandonment, Neglect, and Rejection

Rendezvous with Cupid

I had a long heart-to-heart talk with Cupid about LOVE.  We agreed that it actually has nothing to do with chocolates in heart-shaped boxes. (although I am a chocoholic). And it does not make you happy automatically. In fact, it can pierce your heart, sadden and scare you.

When did love hurt you for the very first time?
When did love make you happy for the first time?
How does it feel when love touches your heart now?
What is the physical sensation in your heart when you feel love?

Sometimes, you have to tame your wounded heart like a wild animal that got hurt in a trap. Slowly, gently, patiently coax it into opening up just a little bit more…and more…It might be easier to love rocks, plants, pets, or friends first before you step out and look for your one and only soulmate. It is all the same energy, and energy likes to move from one “thing” to the other.

And now, please pass the chocolates.